Amen to that, I think that is a very healthy attitude. Some of my favorite quotes are in that vein. "If you are coming to see me, come anytime. If you are coming to see my house, call first." "My house is clean enough to be healthy and dirty enough to be happy" . Works for me! [zogQUOTE=momto5;5739195]I always figured that if I lived in it, they could visit in it.....if they don't wanna, that's fine too.....[/QUOTE]