I don't understand why everyone says you can't gift a quilt top that is not finished. Especially to family. You don't talk much about your family, but I'm sure there must be someone you consider family. Give each one a top with a note explaining about the quilting. They can find someone to finish it. Maybe some would be able to finish it themselves, and find that they love doing that. I would love to receive an unfinished quilt top. I don't think you should give them to charity if there are family available that might want them.