Originally Posted by
M.Elizabeth
I'm many years older than 20!! I found quilters in my local guild to be closed to "newcomers" (I was about 55 when I joined the guild) so I quit attending the meetings, and it had nothing to do with age. I am more of a loner and introvert anyway, so I actually do better on my own.
I would encourage you not to give up, however. Look at Leah Day, her skill, and her age - 27 or maybe 28. She commands great respect for her quilting skills. So even though you feel age is a factor, and it certainly may be with some women, stick with it. Don't become discouraged. You may be the next Leah Day!!
I am also a loner but do like to interact with people. I have had lived overseas and got along with all types and cultures-in my small town I have felt like three headed weird creature when I tried to join a quilt group. I am more welcome at a quilt store I visit on vacation than here. So I quilt and sew alone and email my successes and failures and comments to my BFF. It works for us.
Hang in there-quilt for yourself and remember that it is their loss as I am sure you are a delightful person.