I agree with c.oopah. The makeup of the group determines it's friendliness. I am tired of the group that I belong to and it's judgemental ways. I joined the group later than some and went out of my way to be friendly, especially to newcomers, my example has not been followed. Even if it is not me that they are talking about, it pains me to see them do it to others. It is supposedly a social group, not a guild. I don't need that kind of social and I am 74 years old. This group is enough for me