You obviously have blown us all away with your pattern, your "bedspread" over the quilt, etc. What amazes me is how clueless men can be! Doesn't that son of yours realize that he can have a "neat" bed everyday just by flipping the cover up and letting it settle? Even if there is wrinkles underneath no one will ever see them under that quilt! Who cares if the that quilt doesn't lie flat?! Who could get past the beauty and workmanship!
If he has a dog you might want to make a quickie dog quilt for the dog to sleep on (to keep him off the quilt). We do that, but our dog is small. Great job! And you did it all!!!!