I alway look for something postive to say about a quilt, when it comes, to someone showing me their work. Because that could always be me, holding up a quilt that I've done. Focus on the postive, and then ask polite questions. Altho said many, many, times, and will be said many more times. One mans trash is really another mans treasure. I find beauty in all things handmade. It's all about HEART............