My DH is a keeper by my standards because he tolerates me as much as I tolerate him.....sometimes we have to take a deep breath and back off....and sometimes we go in in total agreement. That's OK with me. We both say we're the best thing that ever happened to the other.
However, I do have one son who is a wonder in my sewing room. He has learned all the ins and outs of running a LA machine, and has created several great quilting designs, and does all of my LA quilting (for me, for my sisters, and for my many friends who need a long armer). Plus, he keeps my sewing room decently clean; as much as one can with me as owner. I am a clutter-bug (mess doesn't bother me when I am creating), a hoarder (when I want to go to Whittle's he goes with me and doesn't say "do you really think you'll use that"); am I lucky, or am I lucky.....