I am new to this forum...just joined today..but we went through this with our son. We were his foster parents from birth. Being a foster parent can be both very rewarding and very challenging. Until the day the judge declares the child yours, nothing is absolute. We were foster parents for a few years before Adrian came to us. As far as the caseworker goes, if your house is tidy, enough room for the child, and safety items in place you are good to go. A fire extingisher in the kitchen is a good idea also a lock box for any meds. Obviously all guns/ammo need to be locked up in seperate places. In the end, it was all worth it as my son is now a bright, hyper, and happy 5yr old. I know this post is late in coming, but I hope everything worked out for you. I know of a great message board for foster and adoptive parents. If interested, let me know and I'll give you the site address.
Cathy - mom to Adrian 5yrs old