when i give a quilt, i hate to hear "it's so pretty, i'll never use it". i tell the person, ok, then give it back! i want the quilt used/loved, and if in a few years it's the dog's quilt. ok then!
but truly, i'd like it to be used for a few years by the humans first <g>.....
as far as the person selling the quilt on ebay....oh, that would hurt!