That's incredible, Ditter. I didn't guess and was not expecting the ending. How easy it has been for our home to accept its own stranger and how he has influenced our lives too; and his wife, and his children and grandchildren. I am pondering .... is he the reason I quilt? He can get on with doing what he does best while I can completely withdraw from him and his family and do what I love best. Of course, we can all still enjoy some time together, but he no longer dominates. Thank you.