Go to
http://www.rnkdistributing.com/pdf-f...Stabilizer.pdf for a workbook by floriani on all types of stablizer. If you have software you can reduce the density so that it's not so stiff. I would also think the leave in stablizer from Floriani that is made for tshirts, etc that is soft would work; it's a fiber instead of a film, that makes a difference.