I'm off to have lunch with my 94 year old Uncle Bob and his 90 year old wife (which we make a point of every couple weeks) and while out, will pick up a couple things for my SP. Like you, K, she has never posted anywhere, has been a board member for years, so I don't know if she reads the posts and just doesn't participate, so I don't know if she would see any clues. I hope she gets involved now! I hope she likes my package. Her interests are totally different from mine, so it's off to the shops!