I wouldn't mind if my cat would sleep in bed with me. Nooooooo, not my Chessie. She walks around my head, gets on my dresser and turns on the light, throws my glasses on the floor and sometimes turns on the cpap. Then she combs my hair, well that actually feels pretty good, and washes my face. She don't come near me any other time. She sits on DH lap, but not mine. She actually does sleep at my feet, not touching me, but right on the corner of the bed. If my foot peeks out from under the covers, it is fair game. I have been woken up to a cat attacking my foot more than once. Like I said, other than that, I don't see much of her. Oh, on the rare occasion that she does get close, if I try to pet her or anything, she bolts. It all has to be on HER terms. LOL