Knowing how to sew is like being a stay at home mom. When children are little and you are a stay at home mom, the world thinks you would love to babysit their kids for them. When you know how to sew, the world thinks you are available to make a baby quilt with 2 days notice.
If quilting is your hobby, you should be able to make what you want when you want. Take orders makes it a job. Tell them all no.