Thanks QNS for your explanation and kind words. Here Ahem means you disagree with what's been said so that's why I was wondering.
Isa was doing so well she's back with Bram now! One day after surgery and before the doctors said she had to stay at least a week in Utrecht in the UMC. What a girl! Bram had a quiet night and my DS was able to hold him today for the very first time. He said Bram settled down very quickly and enjoyed being with his dad! So another milestone for Bram, out of the incubator for the first time and cuddled by his dad for the first time. I'm sure my DDIL took some pictures. As soon as I have them I will post them.