Traci let him have his walk through. if its a mess so what. you work hard on getting these out and not only will you be relieved but everyone be too. same with the other stuff reduce your stress load. pick at one and pick at it really well. go go go!! we are right here. you can do it. come on girl you work miracles. work this one you truly will raise up in your confidence and happiness lifting one thing at least one thing off your shoulder. phew.. lighter already?