This is a new one for me too. I must finally be old. I am sick of weddings where we put the envelope in the "bird cage" or whatever, never to speak to the bride and groom at the reception. Can't tell you how many thank you notes we haven't received for gifts we have given. These are the same people who have time to sign the back of the checks
though!
I guess good manners, taste, and simple courtesy have become obsolete in many people's up bringing. Sigh!
You have probably guessed that this is a sore point for me. Thanks for letting me vent.