Judie, Send out those Thank you notes. Everyone will get a chuckle and be very happy you are still married. However, the postage will cost you 10 times as much as it would have 43 years ago. Hmm- I think I still have one to send that I didn't know the address and it will be 44 years for me this summer. She is now in the nursing home and one of her daughters is now a very good friend.