I would sit down and write what my priorities are to find out if I want to quilt that badly. If you do want to quilt, then start with DH first and go from there. My DH and I are retired and he does quite a bit around the house which I have given up so that I can quilt. No, my house is not as clean as I would like it to be all the time, but my serenity level is quite high due to the quilts that I make. I always take a day a week and that is my day to quilt: no cooking, no cleaning, no phone calls etc. And then I quilt any other day that I want to also.... Good Luck.