ooooooooo, i just had an idea! ooops, i don't know if my recipients will be happy. everyone needs to chatter and get the word out " what you want, what you really, really want" (thanks, spice girls!). it is so hard to know the super quiet people. really, to me the product of the swap is way less important than getting to know someone better, or meeting someone new. of course, i like the swap part , too, big smiley face!