Thanks so much for all the hugs, prayers, and thoughts. Dad saw the surgeon today, and they have decided to try and shrink with chemo first as the tumor is big and it would be hard to get clear margins. He sees the oncologist next week (Monday) so should start chemo as soon as Monday afternoon.
In good news, Mom saw her oncologist yesterday and gets to go to yearly visits instead of every 6 months.
I'm off tomorrow so i'm going to sew something for my SP, who likes asian fabric.