i don't think you making too much about it at all - i love these types of talks/debates. i'm not arguing with you, i see it as two people having a scholarly discussion to try and classify something.
we spend hours at guild talking like this and its my favorite part of guild.
its good to debate these things to bring it down to - what is that 1 thing that makes it this instead of that - basically a classification system.
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