You never should feel sad about quilting. You have to do it for the pure enjoyment and know that a non-quilter will never appreciate all of the work. I just finished a baby quilt for a friend of mine (non-quilter) and I think I spent nearly $100 by the time I finished. I also am very sure that my friend has not a clue of cost or time--but I so enjoyed making it. Betsy-Boo