HAHAHA, with the kids I watched or my own we would have tantrum training. I would just scream and have them scream and then told them until they could get as loud as me and do it right they shouldn't bother at all cause it was just a waste of time and they were welcome to try if they could do it louder than me and correctly. they stopped having tantrums and never took me up on doing it better so that seemed to work. It was so funny though to see the looks on their faces when I was telling them it was okay to have one, but they would have to do in the bedroom with the door closed. That way if I could hear them through the door they would be on the right track. Actually only one kids took me up on it and that was my DH's daughter that was over visiting. She was very spoiled and that didn't fly at our house, she broke the bed slats that night jumping on the bed and having fits but after that she didn't pull it again.