I tried Christian Mingle and was disappointed in it. I tried others including Match dot com and met my husband on a website I can't remember the name of. Anyway he was on another site and when we looked apparently many of the sites are connected. That being said I met many men that I would not want to meet twice but I made sure I met them in a public place and made sure my adult sons knew where I was going and when I would check in with them. Always be careful. But the end result is that I met a wonderful man who had raised his family alone as well and within a year and a half we got married. That was 7 years ago and he has proven over and over again that he is top notch and is a fine upstanding christian man. The problem with places like Christian Mingle is that there are a lot of people who claim to be Christian that may not be or they are over zealous. Again always be careful but my life has become more than I could have hoped after meeting and marrying my husband. I hope that helps. Also if you decide to go on don't go on and wait for interest. Look at those you might be interested in, read their profiles carefully (they will often say something that isn't quite right) and then send them a quick note and see if you get a response. I hope it works out for you.