I met my husband of 10 yrs this coming August on eHarmony and my sister in law met her husband on the same site 6yrs ago. We both are happily married I was 34 when I met my hubby he is a good man. I dated a lot of toads through the traditional way before I decided to try this and he was the 2nd person I communicated with but 1st one I met in person. We married 6 months after that. Has a good job does not drink or party and is not abusive in anyway. He had never been married and had no children I had adaughter who was 9 now almost 20 and he has been a good father to her and she calls him dad. We do have a 8yr old daughter together. Just be very careful there can be creeps anywhere.