Wait awhile, when you think he is able to discuss it with you, ask if he would like it for himself or one of his boot camp friends. If he does not want it for himself or a Marine friend, ask about Quilts of Valor as a gift from you and him together. If he likes this idea, be sure to put his name on the label with your and find a Marine or Marine veteran to present it to. Also remind him, once a Marine always a Marine.