Hang in there Verna. It is disappointing when you are left on the bench. And I hope that unless it is really an unavoidable situation the person/s who don't follow through do have to sit out at least one month, or maybe two. And if it is an ongoing problem they have been warned they would be banned, so maybe that is the fairest thing.
But I think many of us are enjoying the opportunity to get to know each other and so don't mind doing an Angel package when Lori needs one.