Originally Posted by
BillieJean
I have a very good friend and I do her hair for free. I make her handbags for free, she does things for me, but I always pay her, I feel like I am getting the raw end of the friendship...I don't know how to change it...
My advice is becareful ...
You do her hair for free AND make bags for her for free, yet when she does things you pay her? If you feel like you're getting the raw end of the deal - you ARE! My inclination would be to stop paying her for whatever it is she does for you. And if she complains, at least you know where you stand in the "friendship" and can decide whether her company is worth feeling used, or if you would be happier finding a less demanding friend. Good luck!