I like to use pale gray or beige Bottom Line. It's very fine and very strong and sinks beautifully into the fabric. I've used rust colored thread on bright red applique and you can't see it.
Also highly recommend the ladder stitch over whip stitch.
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I used the ladder stitch on these diamonds:
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