It is so sad that we have to move our loved ones out of our home to place that is suppose to benefit them. But then you have some idiot steal their possessions. To me, that is the same as that person walking into my home and just taking what they want.
We are trying very hard to keep Daddy home. He is 90 and has Alzheimer's. It is very hard on Mom. I left my job, in part, to assist her with traveling to doctor appointments or to just sit with him so she can get out for a few hours. I hope your husband finds joy in your visits and understands that this was not an easy decision for you. Bless your heart, sweetie.