It would be good to know what to send. If any one has suggestions, please post them here. If anyone has a particular soldier that they want to "adopt", then they can contact the family member and ask specificaly what to gather. Also, I think postage is very expensive, so please plan on shouldering that expense, instead of giving that to the family. They probably already have a big postage expense of their own. This is going to be a FEEL GOOOOOD project! :D