If you would like to learn how to pick colors, look for a quilter who has a good eye for color. Ask if you can go on fabric shopping together and show/tell you how she picks colors. I have done this with several people and it seems to really help them feel more confident of their own abilities. We talk about colors, tones, size and shapes of patterns. I encourage them to trust themselves...don't substitute my opinion for yours. I tell them you'll know it when you see the right combination. Win win for everyone...you become more confident about your color choices and your friend feels great because someone has noticed their skill.