Happy birthday Jamie. I don't hear from my mom on my birthday either. Dusty usually doesn't either. Don't let it get you down. The people who really want to be there will be there. If your mom can't remember to be there because of her condition, she will still show you she loves you in her own ways. I'm hoping you have a relationship where if someone told her with you there that it was your birthday, she would brighten up and give you the best happy birthday ever.