You sound like me. I have numerous projects of my own that are still assembled in kit form or in some form of completion. Last year I decided I was going to get 4 done. I finished one Christmas lap quilt (the first quilt for us) when babies started coming, DIL wanted a quilt for Christmas etc. Seems I work better with a deadline (gift or crisis) and manage to get those done, but always set mine aside. Oh well. Right now I am working on a rejected baby quilt (not really, but my DIL chose the other design, so I am making this one for our house as a floor quilt). Next I was going to start on a king size BOM for my son and DIL, but got a call from my aunt last week. She began chemo yesterday and I would like to send her a cuddle quilt. I have a quilt retreat this weekend so will assemble all the necessary supplies and hopefully finish that this weekend, to be mailed out next week. The new patterns I see and the fabric I can't wait to use, usually go to the next gift, which is my way of satisfying my need, and theirs. I wish I was as prolific as some of you are. I seem to quilt a lot, but am very slow and methodical...............just my style.