I did not measure the center before adding the borders thus making sure the sided were equal before adding the borders... i will be measuring the center from top to bottom center, left and right vertically and horizontally and then cutting the borders to match. Also, I used the selvage which is always woven tighter and can cause this type of problem so I will be cutting that off too.... lots of errors because I was rushing to meet a deadline ;(..... oh well... I'll post pics of a properly squared quilt when I get it fixed and finished.
DD arrived last night and has seen it... Loves it and said she'd like to have it on her bed at Christmas

.... I think I can get it done by then... we'll be going to the quilter tomorrow to chose quilting design.
Thank you for all your encouragement and suggestions.