You are blessed with your husband , as I am, married now 54 years. You didn't say what you do for him but I'm sure that you care for him just as much. The perfect partnership is caring for each other as equals.Only today we went out to buy plants for the garden and have lunch, giggling together like teenages at our forgetting the 'proper' names for plants.Then home to sit in the sunshine with a glass of wine, remembering all the gardens we had planted over our lives together.