Chips88 and NJQuilter, I've had Jiffy cornbread many times. The Jiffy mill is only 15 miles away when we're down state in the winter. Some of my SIL's family works there. It's good cornbread but not the 'to die for' taste I'm looking for. Maybe adding jalapenos would help. I may try that.
Omacookie and feline fanatic--- these look promising. I'll give them both a try.
Thanks to all of you...... I'll get that perfect cornbread.... I know it.