Having been twice divorced and NEITHER husband was good at getting what I put on "a list", but I did learn with #2 that if he had a "toy" he wanted to say "I'll let you pick out my sewing machine when you let me pick out your shop tools". Kinda like when he sends you to the hardware store to get something and you return home with the wrong item or you send him to the grocery store for whipping cream and he comes home with coolwhip, close but NOT the same especially when needed for a SOUP recipe...