Mom-6, you are just fine! I love all the processes of making a quilt except...you guessed it...getting started with quilting on my midarm frame. I do have some ideas for quilting, but I often stand in front of the quilt on the frame and scratch my head, lol. When that happens, I simply force myself to take that first stitch, and I am okay after that. Sometimes I surprise myself. It does become easier with time.