I hear you! I have several tops that are awaiting basting and quilting. I even have the backing for most of them. I spray baste, so I can't even use the arduous process of pin basting as my excuse. In essence, I don't know how I want to quilt them and I'm afraid to mess them up with less than beautiful FMQ. This is especially true of a quilt that I made with all quilt shop fabrics ( an unusual luxury for me). Now my fear is that by the time I finally do some thing with it, I will no longer be in love with the pattern and fabric choices. I'm considering just paying to have it quilted so I can start using it.