Lovely grandsons you have!!
My DDIL was expecting triplets too but Julian (identical twin with Bram) died on December 12th. He was born on January 20th also and was layed to rest on May 25th, the day Bram and Isa were home for the very first time on weekend leave. Life has been hard but we still have the twins and we're very grateful for that.
They're living in the next town, about 10 minutes away from here.