Mary I was just kidding hon and 64 is not old!
Quilty-Louise,
My heart goes out to you. You've been enduring a lot with your family and I will definitely keep you in my prayers. Spend as much time as you can with your dad. His request for DNR is not easy but to honor it means much to him and that you are respecting it says a lot of how much you love him. {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}