Quiltingdragon..send that boss packing before you collapse!
Louise I am so sorry about your dad. I do think I know what you are going through..Mom is in Hospice,too. Very sad and hard to let go.
Can't remember who said she was worried about what her mom would do when she finished her projects..bet she will be fine. My mother did that when my dad died though the home they had was only about a year old and they had it built to their specifications. Out went the carpet, repainted, etc. I thought she was crazy until I lost my husband..guess what I did? Yep, moved to Illinois and totally rehabbed the house and property!!! It is therapy..least it was for me!