I personally love the Sophie, Collette or Ticklish lines by Moda, definitely feminine without being babyish. Something to grow with baby. Sophie and Collette are older lines may be harder to find.(Ebay)
i as well have a baby quilt to be creating soon(real soon) I will be doing a Black, white, bright pink, polka dot theme Chevron toddler quilt, found a free pattern online too. Google "toddler chevron quilt" the Chevrons are very popular right now, mom loves the Chevron, what she found in the baby stores.
I feel your pain, took me forever to get the plans settled on, mom was having a hard time describing what she wanted.
Good luck!