I am so sorry for whatever your situation is right now. Keep repeating, "this too shall pass" as you go through this experience. Do what you need to do as a loving, caring daughter so that your Dad is protected. Make decisions based on what you know today. Do what is right. Do the best that you can. Do not have regrets.
If you need an elder law attorney, in Texas, I would recommend one that specializes and has the notation, "board certified". It means that they have taken extra classes, tests and have extra time in court for that specialty. I'm sure there is something like that for every state. I hired one for a one hour consultation @ $350 an hour. It was well worth the money. He wanted $7,000 as a retainer to handle the issue I faced with Mom, but I couldn't afford that much. I found an attorney to work with who was in the process of earning her board certification in elder law and her fees were affordable. She knew what we needed, so we were able to resolve matters easily with her help.
Since I do not have direct knowledge, I didn't see the need to pm you on this. Good Luck!
Last edited by GrandmaPeggy; 06-30-2013 at 01:06 PM.
Reason: another thought---if you think you need an attorney....YOU DO!!!