Originally Posted by Meetingtogo
Yes, I did tell her my idea and she is thinking. She would like to have the ideas laid out which is completely correct of her. I told her this is one of those times she is suppose to say "No thanks" and have no fear of me being upset. This is her time not mine.
This is a case of $12 on Mastercard for patterns, sharing history with your daughter-in-law, priceless!
When I say "I'll think about it" - if often means, "I'd really rather not, but I don't know how to say 'no' gracefully"