Glad that scissors queen, scrap quilter and pzazz spoke up, I agree that this might be a huge undertaking that you might find overwhelming. Scrap quilter suggested making the train, that may be do able, also how about a simple purchased gown with the train or a quilted apron? Maybe set your sights on something simpler, even small bits of the dresses will suffice for the history. Another thing is her garter, lace from the dresses could be incorperated in her bouquet or the ring pillow. Love the idea of the lace bows for the aisle. Whatever she decides, she is going to be a beautiful bride.