Thank you for your message,it is always an encouragement when someone understands what you are going through.Two consultants differ in what they think may help---neither sure how much help they can offer !! Well I tell you , the love of my husband and friends help most.Lately my hands have been so painful, but I thank the Lord that the pain is not coming from my hands, just trapped nerves in my back and neck, so I know it may improve when things move.I think if you have a craft you love it helps too. I'm sorry for the Mums out there who find it hard to have time for themselves to sew, hope they can pass on their love of creating to the children in time, that will prove a joy to them.Thanks again oldtisme, may you toofind some relief. Love Letty