I'd gone back to college in my 30s for photography. My husband worked on building me a darkroom in our basement while I was gone to classes. All our family and friends knew about it and no one said a word! The sink counter and enlarger were in place for Christmas. He took me downtown to a large camera shop over break and we chose all the accessories I needed/wanted. He was very supportive of me going back to school and spoiled me rotten with anything I wanted.